When life is stressful and people disagree, it can sometimes feel impossible to talk without someone blowing up, shutting down, or storming off. As adults, we encounter people who are aggressive, passive aggressive, or simply non-responsive, and it can become all too easy to act immaturely in response to them. Learning to manage conflict as a mature adult is perhaps one of the most useful skills that exists, and we forget that counseling provides an opportunity to do this work.